Sunday, May 30, 2010

The Pollyanna project


How to explain the Pollyanna project? Well the above is Pollyanna...and if you don't know who I am talking about, I'll let Wikipedia fill in the rest...

Pollyanna is a best-selling 1913 novel by Eleanor H. Porter that is now considered a classic of children's literature, with the title character's name becoming a popular term for someone with the same outlook...Pollyanna has been adapted for film several times. Some of the best-known include Disney's 1960 version starring child actress Hayley Mills
That Hayley Mills version is the only one I've seen, and before you ask, no I've never read the books. I took an instant dislike to the character Pollyanna, she's all sunshine and lollipops and I'm afraid that's not an outlook that I often inhabit. However lately I'm come to the realisation that life is much more than the daily grind to get things done. That buried somewhere beneath the toil and the everyday motions are 'moments'. Pure, simple pleasures, the work of an instant that somehow make this 'thing' of living seem worthwhile.

Yes I realise some of you may be aghast that I've only just worked that out. And that's not true, we all know it innately don't we? But so often I feel caught up in the everyday that those moments just wash over, unappreciated, not noticed in amongst the little petty cares and hurt we all wear. When that hurts border on the bitter, I'm sure a tiny bit of one's soul is chipped away. Does anyone else feel that way?

So here I am, attempting to save those tiny bits of my soul I guess, one Pollyanna 'glad' moment at a time.

I've decided to not get mad or even (well I might keep those thoughts somewhere as I do like to keep score) but mostly I'm going to get 'glad'. I ran into a neighbour this week and we were talking and she said that a friend passed on advice to her 'I'm not going to get mad, I'm going to get amused...' Look at the title of this blog. Can you imagine what impact that little comment had for me. So gladness is seems is the new black, well at least for me.

So back to Pollyanna. She gets glad. Most of the time she gets so glad that (previous to my new glad period) I would have said the whole community where she lived probably would have been glad to see the end of her. But instead of the ending I imagine (something to do with stapling things to her head) I've decided to walk a little in her, well, glad rags. So I present the Pollyanna project.

Six weeks...(that's about as long as I can see myself keeping this up!) six weeks of daily posts about being glad. Not that I probably will have a chance to post each day, but taking the time to reflect and posting when I can is what I am promising. And what are the outcomes? I will probably be glad it's over, but hey...what harm can it do?

I leave you with a line from the book, thanks Ms Porter...

"When you look for the bad in mankind expecting to find it, you surely will."

Friday, May 21, 2010

...a Masterful day

It's all over red rover! My graduation for my Master of Arts was today, and so good to see staff and students that I actually knew! Also thanks to The Sagacious Friend, the extended family and all those who have sent well wishes...not sure I would of made it through some of those years without you all....[end soppy speech] now someone pour me a champers...I've put my life on hold for 5 years...it's time to party!

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Thanks to The Sagacious Friend for the lovely paparazzi pics!

Tuesday, May 11, 2010

A rabbit story...

One of these rabbits is me...(hint: I'm not tall one). Yes I went to my friend's office dressed as a rabbit...but so did the Sagacious Friend! Yes I sang a version of 'Happy Birthday Bunny Boy'. Yes the birthday girl was suitably impressed I hope. Yes this birthday stunt was inspired by the movie 'Beaches'. Hey what are girlfriends for?




Facebook makes me feel like...

a shitty friend

But that got me thinking, all those people who are on Facebook are also on another network I use every day. It’s called the internet.

So why do I think I can connect and interact with them on Facebook but not anywhere else? Because Facebook made it easy. So now I have to wonder am I only staying in touch with those people because it requires absolutely zero effort on my part? What kind of a person does that make me? What does that say about how much I value their friendship? I feel like I’m saying “Oh hey there, I’m so glad I can see what is going on in your life so long as it’s wheeled out in front of me and doesn’t require me to actually lift a finger because if I had to do something like, type out your e-mail or go to your own website or *gasp* pick up a phone to talk to you that would just be too much.

Nicely said Mr Bonner!